Look, most new posters always have some reason that they need to talk. Don't justify talking to him.

For example:
Originally Posted by Bat
We also have a dog so need to communicate about that.
Who takes care of the dog more? You or Him? If it is him, it is his dog. If it is you, then it is your dog. Negotiate who will be completely responsible for this dog.

Originally Posted by Bat
He is my only friend to be honest
We are now your online friends if you want. One of the first things I strongly suggest is getting "In Real Life" IRL friends. Most of us have done that during this process. My first friend group after the divorce I met by going to starbucks daily. I got to know the staff and the regulars. If you want more help in this area asks us for tips.