An awakening is a timid time for one exiting their crisis. There is a lot of soul searching, some deep depression, then a kind of rebirth. After, it will likely take 18-24 months for them to feel comfortable in their own skin, to truly put it all (or mostly all) behind them and live forward.
It is so interesting seeing XH (G ?) exhibiting such self awareness. I think G is probably more apt regarding the majority of his behaviour. Weekly dinners, open and honest talks, a trip with the kids, all very good steps.
Sounds like you are handling yourself most well. A testament to the self work you accomplished.
Wishing you all the best in this and the new year!
