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It's almost like....one more attempt to upset the life that we worked so hard to create.
Even IF....it turns out to be sincere, it doesn't really matter anymore. Another unwanted insertion into our lives for their self gratification....
If only....
They knew how hard we fought for ourselves....
For me, I have forgiven everything a long time ago....
Yet the initial contact would anger me as well....
Until I realize that this is for them, not me....
I also think that you were the perfect DBer.....
You came here with a mindset, you looked into the mirror, you made the changes for YOURSELF, and you did what worked. You learned from your mistakes and found your balance....
You stopped allowing fear to run your life, and found the courage to take each day as it comes to you..
You developed the goal of 'self' and you achieved it, and created a pretty darned good life for yourself regardless the insanity around you.
You stopped defining yourself solely by what was on your left ring finger...
You developed a greater sense of what life and love meant to you..
Then you starting being the new version of you in everything that you did and still do.
You didn't DB to be successful, you are successful because you DBed...
Regardless, and sometimes in spite of, the outcome of your marriage....
