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Just wanted to let you know that it might be interesting for you to read my story. There you can clearly see that my ex-H made progress very regularly and you could sometimes even distinguish the different stages he went through, but eventually to return completely to the former stages again, something that is also made clear here by the people who have a lot of knowledge of MLC, namely that the stages are not linear at all, so the bottom line is that you can never know in which phase of the process your H is.
For me the message was 'letting go completely' and living a life of my own, this apart from him. This has not only brought me happiness again, but also put a complete stop on the constant eager to analyze him.
The first 3 years I sincerely thought that we would definitely reconcile but the last 6 months I don't need a reconciliation anymore.
It is however ultimately his process and he and he alone can make sure he can fully get through it, which I sincerely hope for him.
I know how confusing it can be when they show signs of making progress. Please just read it and I think you'd better understand what I wanted to say here.
