Everything about successfully DBing feels wrong and is hard for the LBS. Thats why most people don’t successfully bust their divorce. To bust a D timing is very important. The good news is that if you stick with your changes and make the improvements eventually you won’t care anymore and move on. Unfortunately as sad as it sounds that is when you are most likely to reconcile. You will have an even playing field and you will become a person of value and that makes you someone worth having. That’s what makes people feel good.
