Cadet I am not blowing it off I take her accusations very seriously.
Do you trust her opinion ?
Do you trust what anyone else reads in your words ???
Maybe you could , since you seem to be taking these allegations seriously, trust a perspective that may not fit with your current one, and read back through some of these threads and try to see it from a different perspective...
"Work on yourself" shouldn't involve someone else doing it for you....You gain nothing from having others do that for you....
You can give a man a fish and he eats for a day....or teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime....
