Are you living each day as your last or are you looking ahead for potential red flags? Are you going to fight for her if something went wrong or are you going to breakup with her over financial troubles?
Whether you agree with him or not - LH is very much bringing up your own words... which are confusing. Why not look at them or ask yourself the hard questions. Especially if you are serious about looking into your anxious attachment. Are you asking yourself why your emotions are swinging? Are you scared? Being triggered?
I personally found the tone of your emails about her financials.. well judging. Full of frustration and anger... without a ton of empathy? Have you asked yourself why is that your first reaction? Why it was such a strong emotion? You never answered MLC's question about why did you go out to dinner if she couldn't pay for the room. Why not sit and have a financial talk right then and there to help smooth out the weekend?
You can find alot of helpful information here about yourself... once you take the spotlight off of her and put it on you.
