Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Traveler
I need to detach from the hurricane that is her life.
I would like to think you would have more empathy for the woman you loved especially when not long ago you were in her shoes but yeah looks like you won't have to be the bad guy.

Onward and upward.

I agree with LH. You are quick to call her a hurricane and write her off when not too long ago you didn’t have a license , a wallet, a legal functioning car, a dangerous rat infested house and days and days of dishes. You didn’t have your sh!t together. So don’t go casting stones so easily. Show some empathy. She may not be a good fit for you and might have some financial issues she is not managing so well, but is her life really a hurricane ? And how long ago were in that very sitch?

You always say how you want a partner to love and accept the good, bad, and ugly, but do you practice what you preach

Maybe time for a little self
Reflection ?