Well, FWIW T, it could be hard to differentiate between “Things are getting boring because there’s no drama so I’m backing off” and “As I get to know her better I’m starting to see red flags”.
I’m still hung up on the financial stuff. A grown woman who buys a new car she can’t really afford and doesn’t ask daddy for a loan because she knows he’ll tell her she can’t afford it? Sounds to me like daddy might know she has a history of overspending? And if her credit is good, why would she need a loan from daddy? Interest rates on car loans are usually pretty good.
And again -maybe I’m too suspicious, but sharing that info with you seems like a bit of a fishing expedition to see if you’ll jump in and offer to help.
