Ohmigosh AnnKay. That’s a dilemma, to say the least. Have you spoken with your doctor or OBGYN about this? That would be my first call if I were you. You need to assess the medical risks to yourself and to your unborn baby first and foremost. Your son is three and kids his age tend to have mild cases so in that respect, he’s probably okay. However, whether or not your H will be able to take care of him really depends on how sick he gets. Another option would be to go get your son, with your doctor’s okay, and self isolate with him at your place without your H. I wouldn’t go and look after H…he can rely on OW for that, IMO.