My exw took out $500 from our account without telling me. When I chatted with her -she had a valid reason however it did break the agreement that we would discuss withdrawls before performing them. What it did show me was that she no longer at a place to have those kind of conversations with me about it. She was at a place where my "well being" was no longer her concern.
Everyone is right about consulting a lawyer. And as hard as it is - you gotta pull your head out of the sand and look at what your H is showing you. I know how painful it is but figuring how you can be in the drivers seat of this versus reacting to his choices is the way to go here. Both roads are painful but the first can at least protect you and your baby.
