Traveler,

Originally Posted by Traveler
I wonder if I'm often giving off mixed signals to the women around me?
Yes, you are...at least based on the descriptions you give here.

Originally Posted by Traveler
I still think the shared bed was more innocent than many are imagining. I blame this on describing a complicated choice in the span of a couple of paragraphs.
This is a perfect example. We're not overcomplicating it, you are. Most adults don't share beds with the member of the opposite sex when one or both don't have some sort of romantic expectations (especially when you and the woman have asked each other out in the past). I called it here before you even went on the trip.