Well, I'm not sure if anything with re-met guy will develop - though he seems interested, initiates quite a bit and is responsive. He told me that he has been offered a role abroad which he may accept. He is also married - albeit long time (6+ years) separated. And that is something I struggle with too - dating a married man. Could I overcome that? He has also been twice married. Hmm. Again, I struggle a little with that.
So, food for thought - and some red flags too. Though in many ways, he is attractive and attentive and bright. All good things. Maybe something light? I don't know. We'll see how things unfold, but definitely feeling somewhat cautious...
Funny, he raised getting older and that it would be nice to grow older with someone and have someone to look after you. But I don't think it's a great plan to try and meet someone at 54, so that you'll have a carer at 80!? And what if you end up being the carer?
Also, I do enjoy being single just now too
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
