If you had a best friend of many years, and one day they punched you in the face, golf you they couldn't stand your sorry butt, and they sent you packing, how many times would you keep going back to receive the same treatment?
I get it. She's your wife. But your behavior gives her all the control. Wouldn't life be easier if you chose to believe what she's saying and you took some control back?
Every time she reaches out in the smallest way, you leap for her arms...and get a fist in the face.
That makes no sense my friend...
Blessings, Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."