I really do feel for you, Buster. It hurts to love someone and not feel that love back. It hurts because you are trying to do the right thing (ex moving out) but it is getting you no where. You want to give her space, you want to let her know how much you love her, yet she is still moving towards divorce.

I guess the decision is up to you. Do you want to make her happy and progress how things are going? Or do you want to show her how serious you are about your marriage and get her angry with you for awhile (the anger never stays for long periods of time...trust me)?

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08