Failing Relationship OM in the Picture - 06/15/14 09:54 PM
Hello All..I was on this site a while back trying to save a marriage. It didn't work and now I'm trying to save a 4 year relationship. We're in the "mess" we're in because of my irrational decision to move out of the house in a heated argument one night. I've owned the responsibility but it's the second time I've done it and she's hurt/scared.
I've been working on me. I've done a 180 on my interaction with her children, helping around the house, etc. However, since we're officially "not together" she's been seeing this guy. They've slept together a few times and she's readily admitted it. She says she still loves me, says she still see's a future for us, etc. I've told her that there's no "US" in the future with this guy in the picture.
We are meeting with a counselor tomorrow night. I'm thinking about drawing the line in the sand....if you want to work on us, end it with him. If you won't end it with him, then don't contact me.
I'm prepared to walk away....it's going to hurt like hell because I do love her and I do want a future with her. I'm willing to work through the pain, the hurt, etc and move forward with her......or without her.
Thoughts?
I've been working on me. I've done a 180 on my interaction with her children, helping around the house, etc. However, since we're officially "not together" she's been seeing this guy. They've slept together a few times and she's readily admitted it. She says she still loves me, says she still see's a future for us, etc. I've told her that there's no "US" in the future with this guy in the picture.
We are meeting with a counselor tomorrow night. I'm thinking about drawing the line in the sand....if you want to work on us, end it with him. If you won't end it with him, then don't contact me.
I'm prepared to walk away....it's going to hurt like hell because I do love her and I do want a future with her. I'm willing to work through the pain, the hurt, etc and move forward with her......or without her.
Thoughts?