Monthly Archives: January 2011

What To Do After Changing Your Approach?

Posted on January 31, 2011 by mwd27

Before approaching your spouse with one of the many fight stoppers (all separate links) we’ve equipped you with, you will have a picture in your mind’s eye of the kind of reaction to be expecting from him/her.  If your spouse … Continue reading →

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How Long Does it Take to Recover From An Affair? [Video]

Posted on January 27, 2011 by mwd27

Today’s video topic is “How Long Does it Take to Recover From An Affair?” In my practice, couples come to me all the time, frustrated that they haven’t yet gotten past their spouse’s act of infidelity, even if the incident … Continue reading →

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A Powerful Approach to Stopping Fights: Do a 180

Posted on January 20, 2011 by mwd27

We’ve covered many different approaches to doing something different when confronted with challenges in your marriage.  You’ve learned how to act as if, you’ve learned that it’s easier done than said, that the medium is in the message, and you’ve … Continue reading →

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How to Save Your Marriage During an Affair

Posted on January 18, 2011 by mwd27

A question I receive all the time is, “how can I save my marriage after my spouse has found out about my affair?” First, it’s important for people to understand that infidelity doesn’t have to be a marriage deal breaker.  … Continue reading →

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Do Nothing: A Novel Approach to Solving Marriage Problems

Posted on January 11, 2011 by mwd27

Some people are fix-it addicts.  Fixing their marriages becomes the main focus of their lives.  The problem with this is that relationships are like see-saws: the more one person does of something, the less the other one will do.  If … Continue reading →

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What is the Average Amount of Sex in Marriage? [Video]

Posted on January 4, 2011 by mwd27

One question I’m asked as much as any other is: “what is the average amount of sex in marriage“  Clearly, the question is asked not with the intent of gathering facts for the sake of fact gathering.  Either the lower … Continue reading →

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