I talked to Laurie again in March, and we agreed I'd try going dark for a while. I find that a bit confusing, but she has more experience with this than I do. It bugs me, though, when DB coaches or others on this board name as a goal getting to a place where you're okay with letting the marriage go. Do you need that devil-may-care attitude in order to be attractive again, or is a protective strategy for dealing with the fact that this divorce is not likely to be busted?
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M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts
Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07
H said finit: Jun '10
I moved on: May '13