My opinion do whatever is in the best interest of your daughter. It has nothing to do with your w and just because you are at the same function doesnt mean your playing happy family.
Thanks, I plan to make D4’s party the most enjoyable and memorable she can experience. Kids are my priority.
Originally Posted by Steve85
I feel like you hang on her every word looking for hope and meaning. Have you so soon forgotten "Believe nothing she says?"
Steve, I meant the confused comment to come across sarcastically and to highlight how challenging it is for the WW to keep everything straight in their minds amongst all of the lies. Trust me, I believe nothing she says. They are just empty words that I am getting better at brushing off. At times, I’m just in awe of what comes out of her mouth and am amazed at the logic (err lack of) processing in her brain.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
Imo it is only happy family if you are trying to make it happy family. Really doing it so you can spend time with your W vs doing it because it really is about your D. As I became more detached I realized that my daughters get limited time with me and their mom together and it is good for them to see us interact in a positive manner. I don't for them and with no ulterior motives.
Please start a new thread and link your two threads together.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
