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^^^Good blak, that's perfect. Great attitude, excellent caution, good analysis. Everything is spot on!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57
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She tried to get me to have lunch with her today. I declined. She offered to bring me lunch. I declined.

She's now saying she has missed me.

"You haven't missed me for over a year. What changed?"

Guess we'll have to just stay tuned to find out! lol

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bm, are you open to getting back together with her?


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Maybe like 0.5%.

I'm willing to hear her out as long as she doesn't try the manipulative stuff, but so far all she has done today is try to get my attention on her terms and resisted actually trying to talk stuff out in the court monitored app. So I'm thinking if she really means it, she'd be willing to say that stuff where there's a record of it (not like I wouldn't record audio of us meeting and talking). But it sounds to me like things aren't going her way, and just as soon as she gets whatever emotional reaction she wants (she sees me and gets her feels taken care of), she's just going to disappear again.

S deserves better than to have all of the back and forth.

Is that 0.5% subject to change? Possibly. But that all depends on her, and words mean nothing to me. So far, that's all I'm seeing...words.

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Yes Bm. Take the time to listen. You have that time.


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Ok BM, I ask that because if you are at 0 percent, then I wouldn't even entertain it. Either way you should be moving forward with the D. This may be more stall tactics on her part.


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I'm definitely not dropping the D any time soon. I do understand it could just be another attempt to stall. So I've definitely got my eyes open.

She did the "I love you. I'm sorry" thing today. So...maybe she's coming around. I don't know. No expectations.

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