I am concerned that your S9 is going to be staying w/her. Check him over when he comes home, if you see any bruises and/or scrapes, then take photos. If your S9 talks to you, document everything he says. Hopefully, when she discovers how much time, energy, attention and work it is to take care of the children, she will change her tune.

Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself.

When you have a moment, please start a new thread and link the two threads together. Thanks so much!

New Thread:

Just keep swimming, I think I can, I think I can part 2

Last edited by job; 11/11/18 09:14 PM. Reason: added link to new thread

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.