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She was pretty hot and mentioned something about exposing the fact that she caought me mastubating to porn I’d i out her to our friends... then she left.
Next time she threatens this, take out your phone, call your friend, and tell them you've watched porn. Threat extinguished.

I mean who gives a rat's rear end if you watched porn? I watch porn sometimes, so what? I have a penis and sometimes it convinces me to watch some porn. Big freakin deal.


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She was pretty hot and mentioned something about exposing the fact that she caought me mastubating to porn I’d i out her to our friends... then she left.
Next time she threatens this, take out your phone, call your friend, and tell them you've watched porn. Threat extinguished.

I mean who gives a rat's rear end if you watched porn? I watch porn sometimes, so what? I have a penis and sometimes it convinces me to watch some porn. Big freakin deal.



One time I was listening to Chuck Swindoll and he mentioned he had hosted a retreat for seminary students. He sent out a survey before the last day of the seminar asking some behavioral questions, one of them being if they had watched porn while at the retreat. It was an anonymous survey so I'm sure they felt there was no harm in being honest, because no one would know how any particular person had responded. Anyway guess how many admitted to having watched porn while on the retreat? You ready? 100%. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. Doh, busted. So yeah, if 100% of seminary students on a religious retreat are watching porn, then what percentage of the general male population do you think watches it? Finding out someone has watched porn is not exactly an earth-shattering revelation these days.


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