Well I received some quite flattering attention from another woman recently and it made me feel very good about myself. I am really torn here because I know for my own codependency entering into any new relationship is not the healthy thing to do. And I know if my W came back I would drop and hurt whoever I was seeing which is a terrible thing to do to someone else. I am just confused about how I interpret the advances from OW? How are we as DB supposed to deal with these types of situations? I am letting go of W and focusing on ME but what if focusing on me brings someone new into my life at this time?
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18
Really? Are you asking how to handle attention from an OW?
Enjoy the flattery and keep to your self. It may not even be real. Either way, who cares? Learn how to feel good about yourself regardless.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
I would never act on anything. It just made me feel really weird as the space in my mind occupied by my WAW I am trying to free and this OW started to fit in to the void
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18
