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Glad doctors news was good.

Your L doing a freebie was a nice gesture and goes to show that there are some decent ones out there.

I hope that I am wrong but I have the impression that ex is a little too stirred up to accept your lawyer's reply.

As for forgiveness, it is a huge topic. But I think it is possible to forgive her especially if ye all agree she wasn't/isn'tin her right mind. Many texts have been written outlining that forgiveness benefits mostly the forgiver.

Best wishes as always


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M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
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Good news about D16 - I'm so happy for all of you!

Your lawyer is a good person - he knows you've been thru the wringer. Hope this volley is the last.

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S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

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A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
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I am very happy to read the good news about your daughter's health.

As for your lawyer, he's a good one for sure. As for the xw, no matter how many times she is told, she will continue to do whatever she wants. She may even change lawyers and continue the cycle...but I hope not.

I do hope that you and the girls can enjoy the rest of the summer.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Glad you have a good honest lawyer.....that is not a shark and only wants money......







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BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
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