Sorry, clarification here, the moment of intense anger at the OM did not occur in the house, or in front of anyone who would have seen me. It came after I left the house and was in the car. After leaving my sobbing wife, my tourettic son, and my broken home.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
Anger at the OM is reasonable... He is not innocent in this. My H posted a public message on OMs Facebook: Stay the F away from my wife. I know where you live, work and I have info on your family. He then sent a private message to my previous EA: I am blocking you from Artista's account. I am sure you know why. Have a good life...
Hoosjim, hopefully your W will see how foolish she has been... Sticking to silly notions of always being the good girl except for this "one big thing." For holding you at arm's length physically... For saying, "I'm still here," when you shared your concern about her commitment... I know I harp on you about words meaning something, and others here said they didn't think she needed to say the words that she is committed to you, to the M... but I could read her attitude by the words she's chosen to speak and the words she does not speak, and that is because I have done the same...
And I would absolutely post on the SOB's FB page, but he was at least wily enough to bar access to everyone except preapproved friends... after he was dumb-a$$ enough to post pictures on there of him at the beach last July right next door to where my wife was...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
