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Thanks. WAW wants divorce but won t file because I asked her not to. I have since said I won t object. We are under a separation agreement and separated since 8/2017. When she texts she just sends pics.

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Thank you Steve. When she writes a text it is normally just pics of the kids.

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I learned today WAW is putting addition on house. Now I know why she s asking for child support.

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Thanks Steve. I feel that I am on LRT at times.

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WAW is asking for child support and for me to contribute to child care. By law I am obligated only to pay child support. Any thoughts on what I should do? She wants to simulate a custody schedule representing a divorce, so I am tempted to pay like a divorce . She will not like it if I don t pay for the childcare school, even though she works part time and parents provide childcare already. It is a bit of tough love but I want her to experience what divorce is like, that you can t have your cake and eat it too. Is this ok?

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Just had a thought. The messages that are going through don't have quotes in them from other posters. could it be related to quoting?


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WAW wants me to pay child support and contribute to preschool. I am not obligated by state law to pay. Should I not pay even though she will be angry?

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WAW is slowly draining me of my will to continue.
She can hardly look in my eyes when she talks to me.
Only talks to me when she needs to do something. Otherwise cold. Feel like it s gotten progressively worse and I have been implementing Sandi s rules. I feel like I am dying of a slow death. I think my WAW needs to be on anti depressants and is not happy. So I feel I am the scapegoat. When does this end It seems like a never ending mind game and test. I hope she realizes that we ll need to have a good relationship to co parent. She s not helping here.

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Sorry you are having problems.


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