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And you can´t control that petri. As hard as it is...

Just protect yourself and your kids. Be the lighthouse.


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Your sitch stinks, petri. I don't know how much you can do.

How would your XW see your offers to help her? What can you do?

I hope you're getting along OK, working on yourself, and taking care of your family.


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and naturally I followed.


Imagine for a moment that you did that which was NOT natural, and you didn't go with D? Imagine what an impact that could have made on your XW? DBing is about doing that which is NOT natural. That is what 180s are about. Naturally you would beg, plead and reason with them on BD. DBing says it is better NOT to do that.

Anyway, not really saying this to chastise you as much as I am for any newbies that might be reading.


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Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.
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