One year into MLC with wife and this is my story

[sjohns6]

Marvin,

Sounds like you are doing well, all things considered. Polyamory, though? I guess there is no understanding the thought process of someone going through this. It just doesnt make any sense. I think saying that she cant imagine life without you is a good sign, even if it is mixed with a lot of crazy talk.

Keep posting...I like reading your stuff

[Gordie]

Marvin

If you read my threads

W asked for polyamory

My suggestion when you get crazy

Just listen

Do not resist or fight

Usually no response is warranted

And if one is you can say let me think about that and get back to you

I made it clear if she wanted to sleep with OMs

I had no interest in a R wth her

It was hard for me to say that

But that is a boundary for me

I am not controlling her

She can do what she wants

But so can I

So when she started overnights with her OM

Then I pushed to divorce

And she gave him up

Be true to you