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Hi CW, thank you for your kind words.

I will indeed use my weight loss to my advantage, but the rate of loss is too high to be safe. I've lost 6kg (~13lbs) in less than 2 weeks, a lot water i'm sure, but I need to get my appetite back functioning again.

She shouted at me on the phone earlier - her laptop had stopped working and she was demanding I come home and fix it. I told her she can't speak to me that way and I hung up. It gave me such a lot of satisfaction, I felt like I was in control for once.

~Si


Me 37 Her 40
D 5 S 3
T 6 M <2
I discover PA: 2017-12-10
ILYBINILWY: 2017-12-11
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that's a great boundary, well done!


Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

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Sique, welcome. I'm sorry you're here. I just caught up on your sitch.

Your W will try to convince you that you're to blame for this. She'll deny her A and make you feel like cr@p for suspecting. Trust your heart. My STBXW did the same thing. She built a "reality distortion zone" around me and I had trouble even seeing what was right in front of me.

It sounds like you're already starting to stand up for yourself and not accept her attitude. Great job, especially so soon after BD. You're already doing better that I did smile

I suggest you drop MC. I know you want to fix things, but she's too far gone for MC to do any good.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.
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