From what I've read, you are actually in much better shape than most of us on this site. At least, you found this site while you both have warm feelings towards the other.

Excuse my bluntness, but YOU NEED A MARRIAGE COUNCILOR. AND INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING.

Get the book. It will show you how one of you (you, in this case), can change your marriage. But unless something changes, it looks to me like you are heading for a divorce. I hope it doesn't happen.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17