People get upset for rational reasons and irrational reasons. If someone gets upset for an irrational reason it does not mean you did something wrong, and therefore its not on you to make the situation right. It's on them to deal with their emotions. All I can tell you about that text exchange is that it's not your job right now to manage her emotions and make her feel good. She needs to own that. Do what you want to do and feel good about it. Having her wonder what you're up to is a good thing for you, so be vague and know that its okay.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
