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Stunned, if I told you a year, would you be overwhelmed?? There's just no way to know, the most important aspect to space is the WW or WAW getting past their flight (as in fight or flight) stage. It is undeniable that Persuing doesn't work, and only makes them more determined to get away.

You give them space and wait for reality to sink in.. In the meantime you work on you, then maybe, hopefully, one day two people who have found their own happiness reunite to share it with each other.

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Yes that sounds extremely overwhelming and exactly like what she's wanting me to do. She wants to move all her stuff out so we don't have any reminders and can move on.

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