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Not saying that Sandi's advice is bad, especially considering that I may end up taking it myself. But if you do plan on taking her advice. Then your sons life will be turned upside down, which would only be the fault of your W. Tough choices have to be made if want to get respect the way Sandi is suggesting. Either that are stick solely with what your currently doing and hope that things work out without having to threaten to evict her. Perhaps there is another option. But the most extreme option to knock her back track would be getting put out. Who knows the threat alone might be enough for her to stop.


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That's true but sandi2 seems pretty confident that nothing else will get her to respect you and I am starting to believe that. Either way I am waiting until the end of June when my daughter graduates. So I have 2 months to see how the current way progresses. I am working on my GAL and will keep with the 180 until then. I had picked up the DR book on Thursday and I am almost done with it. The book talks about looking for the small changes to see if a method is working and from where I was 7 weeks ago there have been many small positive changes. Obviously not everything is where I would like it to be but it has been a nice change from the way things were for the past year.

Have a good night Tread. I hope everything keeps moving in the right direction for you. It sounds like it is.

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Please start a new thread, you are over 112 posts


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