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Well, what started off as an overwhelming month is turning into one of the most incredible positivity, learning and good experiences.

Downside was I had a very brief dip into the worry (read: panic) of being cheated on. I expressed it (very, very badly) to the wonderful man I am with. I can see how much I upset and hurt him, and I can also see how much I need to learn to just talk constructively and positively with the person I am with, how much I need to learn to take the heat and emotion out of some things.

I never had that in my M. We **never** talked about questions/issues/problems. I feel like I tried, and I know that he just couldn't. I had other people say that about him as well while we were M, good friends of his, so it wasn't just me. It was the way he was.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017
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New beginnings

Last edited by job; 11/27/17 01:25 AM. Reason: added link to new thread

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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