xxx a month child support and xxx cash. That's all she wants. Joint legal and her primary physical custody, me with visitation whenever I want. I own a construction business that does millions a year in business. She could have asked for 10times that.
I would never put what you said above out on a public forum. If anyone in real life suspects this might be you, it could come back to bite you BIG TIME. I would see if a MOD could delete this comment for you. Just my opinion.
I agree.....Cadet, can you help me on this one?
Edit - see how that is - and please start a new thread
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also have very damaging stuff that could potentially hurt my W's career and status with her family. I'm not even sure I would use it at this point anymore. She has said so many negative things to friends and family members that I really don't care anymore. However, we will be starting court soon and if she tries to drag my name under the mud in regards to being a bad father then I may just have to play dirty myself. I really don't want to, but when it comes to my kids don't mess with me. She has stated over and over that she will be civil for their sake, but I know how these things go and when we finally stand before the judge I'm sure all bets will be off. I'm just waiting to see for now. It is horrible how they act and who they become. They can sit there, with a smile on their face, and say these things about the ppl they once loved. Such a shame....
All I have to do is hit send and it will end her career. Just be prepared for her to come out swinging. Mine said she was going to be civil and then came out like mighty Casey at bat.
Man, don't even try to figure them out. That ship has sailed. I never in a million years though that someone who loved me and supported me would turn around and do the things she's done and said. Dang.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I also have very damaging stuff that could potentially hurt my W's career and status with her family. I'm not even sure I would use it at this point anymore. She has said so many negative things to friends and family members that I really don't care anymore. However, we will be starting court soon and if she tries to drag my name under the mud in regards to being a bad father then I may just have to play dirty myself. I really don't want to, but when it comes to my kids don't mess with me. She has stated over and over that she will be civil for their sake, but I know how these things go and when we finally stand before the judge I'm sure all bets will be off. I'm just waiting to see for now. It is horrible how they act and who they become. They can sit there, with a smile on their face, and say these things about the ppl they once loved. Such a shame....
It is one thing to defend yourself in court. Outside of court, is another. It just keeps you on the roller coaster with her.
If you want to stop being a target, don't give her ammo.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
JKR....we've hijacked your thread and pushed it over 100. What is it that you want to do going forward?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
