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Happy Holidays!

I hope you and your daughters are enjoying the festivities of the season. How is your daughter doing?


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Irish ... thank you

I hope you and your daughters had a great Christmas and 2017 brings you some peace and many joyful memories.


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Irish, that was such a sweet thing to do. So many people don't understand that you can still love and miss the person that you once spent so much of your life caring for. That the stuff and nonsense that has gone on since shouldn't erase the memory of what was real and lovely. What a beautiful offering to the memory of the woman that once was there to enjoy that cup of coffee and the quiet time together. The prayer speaks volumes about your capacity to forgive, as well. Bless you and your girls, you deserve a 2017 that is full of all that is good in the world.


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Hi Irish
I know what you feeling ... in all the hustle bustle of my vacation I missed him a lot and wished he was here to enjoy it with us... I have no idea in what status he is in ... is he in pain or happy .. what is he doing ... my friends here are pushing me to drop him completely but still not there yet.
I feel it is ok to mourn the relation that once was... it is only a sign that we once loved and lived... nothing can take those memories from you heart.
Be the person you always want to be don't let your x determine your actions. You want to inform her of something do it but try as much as possible to not expect anything from her.. I totally reduced my interaction and kept it short..but just small enough to show we didnot forget yet...
I hope all the best for your daughter will keep her in my prayers.
Remember we can't control them .. just a slight guidance ...


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