Esame - just want to lend some support and say I am sorry. I hope you can find assistance and the emotional support you need.
Sadly, I am not surprised that your h cannot "get it." MLCers crop, edit and retouch situations so that reality does not taint their world.
Keep strong and take care of you and your kids.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
