Thank you Rouky, Coly and Sotto. I agree with all of you. I've been mentally and emotionally preparing for this and at the same time it goes against everything I believe in. I have to stick up for myself and my future. I'm not taking an offensive position.... It's stricky defense.
I know my thread is going to close. Before I start my new thread I have a question for you Sotto. How did your ex perceive you while going through the legal process? I just think that my stbxh hates me even more; and by protecting myself it is supporting his decision to continue to walk away.
Like someone told me a few posts up, I can't seem to win for losing. I know he wants me to just roll over and take whatever HE thinks the outcome should be.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
I'm sorry you are having some down time and I want to send you hugs too. I'm also sending you some positive thoughts and hopefully things will be a bit better tomorrow for you.
Please take care of yourself.
Also, please start a new thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
