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You have a lot of people concerned about you. Hope to hear from you soon.


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RSG, hope this message finds you well brother. Let us know how things are going on your end. We're all here to help you through this!


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RSG - hey, don't know where you are. Perhaps you not longer see a point in visiting, all things considered. Sending you good thoughts, just simply send us an "I'm alive, be back later".


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Originally Posted By: CT1118
RSG - hey, don't know where you are. Perhaps you not longer see a point in visiting, all things considered. Sending you good thoughts, just simply send us an "I'm alive, be back later".



I appreciate all of the concern. I'm doing as well as possible actually. I'm moving towards divorce, but I'm not rushing it or anything. W and I are agreeing on as much as possible before we have to get into the lawyer's office and negotiate. I will make a longer post later, but I'm doing ok.

I'm parenting ok with the W, and we are working together for the little guy. I've put a halt on therapy for now for monetary reasons, but will DEF be going back after this is all over in order to work on forgiving her for all the evil she has done. In order for me to parent effectively, and to make sure I can trust a woman again.

Again, I appreciate the concern! I'm doing ok, and continue to take things day by day. Thanks guys!!


Me: 35 W: 32
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Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

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RSG, as always, you are taking a measured and calm approach to this. Think you're on a good path, though it's not quite the outcome we were all hoping for.

Regardless, extremely glad to hear from you brother. Let us know if there's anything we can do to help you!

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RSG, my man.


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Hey brother, just checking in on you. Hope all is well!



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Hope all is well amigo!


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RSG, I hope you and your S are doing awesome!


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