Dear Cadet, Hi! I wondered why I couldn't find the post LOL . Now I know. As far as the decision to spend time (I have lots) energy (not so much) I guess I figured it would give me something productive to do even though it is so hard for me. I have even thought of trying to find someone to assist .
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016
Dear Cristy, Thanks for your support,I think you are correct. I will need to read DR again but it is sometimes hard to apply all of it to this unique situation .
Hi Luv1589,
Yes, reading DR again is a good idea. Your DB Coach would be an excellent resource on how to apply it to your unique situation.
Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 and we can get a session scheduled for you.
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Hi all, today I went to Home Depot and picked up some packing supplies and brought up a box of books to sort from the garage. How much actual progress I make will probably show how much it is for me . :-)
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016
Hi all, Just updating, Ignored WAH phone calls but did respond to txt re: daughter in hospital. Found myself waiting all day for him to call or come by . Grrr. I hate my behavior. :-( Trying to make activities,sigh... I went to Home Depot and picked up boxes for packing But I just feel so lost and untethered I've never been so lonely in my life .
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016
Luv1589 - we're all here cheering for you. Packing up our spouse's things is difficult. I cried for 10 minutes straight when I took our wedding photo off of my home office desk. Take your time and breathe. For me, I find the boxes of WW's stuff piled up for her to take a good sign of detachment, that I'm letting her and that stuff go.
Hugs to you.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Dear Andrew, Thanks so much for the post. It's good to know that I don't live completely alone since there are kind kindred spirits like you. I managed to sort through a couple boxes and then found one that was entirely his books , pretty hard to believe since I am the reader but mostly they were sentimental from his mother and grandmother . I was not excited as that meant I had to carry it Back to the garage. LOL . Take care I hope you are doing well . :-)
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016
Good Evening all, (here in SW US anyway) I worked really hard to go through things,mostly books.Took 4 large boxes to Goodwill and DIL came over also to sort the spare room closet which was a disaster! She was a huge help and between our efforts got a lot done.However my back is killing me. I saw my husband,He was supposed to be visiting our daughter so I met him to give him some clothes for her. I'm not doing well at distancing as he is coming over tomorrow,some things I do think maybe we could do by phone but not sure,simply too tired to think. I hope everyone is doing well,will check in tomorrow.:-)
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016
