The twist!

[Balazs]

Hey guys,

How do you stay cool with a WW, when you live together, sleep in the same bed, and after a vacation she goes and sleeps with the OM.
After that being ignorant, and selfish. I have to take a deep breath to cope with the feelings.

[Balazs]

I mean, I have the feeling that I should be angry, and say to her that I know that you're sleeping with the OM.
And give her some kinda ultimatum that she stops what she is doing, otherwise she can live the house.
I suppose it isn't a great idea....

[Balazs]

Dear people,

I got myself into a troubling situation, I was away for a week in another country, so my wife was staying home with our kid.
Lately we haven't been talking much, just the usual conversation. But she is being really ignorant, I felt like a ghost in my own home, she wasn't initiating any talks about casual things.
And I came home my son was hugging and kissing me, and saying: 'Papa I missed you so much'
Meanwhile for my wife I was just pain in the a** (sorry)
She was saying to another friend:
Wife -'Well Balazs is coming home today ' (sceptical face)
Friend -'Not really looking forward I guess'
Wife -'Not at all!'

Question what am I doing wrong? I'm not making any trouble or not controlling her, clearly she is annoyed that I work as a chef and I do not have proper working shifts. (sometimes she has to cancel things in the evening because I have to work early the day after)
Back then she supported me to start working as a chef, and now she hates my job...

She doesn't have any job in the last five years, I have been holding the financial cases bringing money in.

I am reading now DR after I finished DB. She is clearly a WW, I never felt this left out from my own family, she does things with me because of the kid.

I am speechless!

Let me know something, please, I am pretty desperate!

[Balazs]

Anyone?

[Rose888]

Why does she have to cancel her evening plans if you have to work early the next day?

As for the larger question, I don't feel like I know enough about your sitch to comment. Maybe one of the vets can chime in.

[MrBond]

For someone who read DB you sure place a lot of blame on her, what is your list of things to change?

[Balazs]

For someone who read DB you sure place a lot of blame on her, what is your list of things to change?

Thank your MrBond,

I was wrong, I do blame herm because it took off the pressure (but the twist is that I pushed her further away), I could not notice it myself.