I wouldn't because she would not be coming back for the right reasons.She might come back set herself up in a better situation to make you the bad guy...then take it all away. I couldn't do it. The CPS threats and flat out entitlement that she has shown....i would always be suspicious
Keep in mind that STBX may well create some options that aren't on your list and be prepared to be flexible.
I know that for my W's brother and his W that after his EA he was happily going along with the D process until his own "come to Jesus" moment when he found out that his W had a bunch of money he couldn't touch. Next thing you know they're in MC, buying an RV and she has him on a "very" short leash. The thought of her wanting to reconcile might not be as remote as you think so be prepared with what your conditions would be. She sounds rather self centred and selfish at least right now - very like my BIL perhaps.
Also STBX will find that it is "very" difficult to cross international borders with children that she doesn't have full custody of - Jesus comes in all shapes and sizes. This break while she is up in my neck of the woods may have her meet all sorts of realities. Maybe she'll even run into bigybiz - I'm in my own Toronto office one day next week - warn her about the guy in the bow tie
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
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H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
