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Thanks cherry. With all you have going on, i Appreciate you stopping in.
Yes, disrespectful but isn't that what all of them are doing with affairs and ea? I thot were to wait and let them do what need to do so they find d their way? and we have to detach. Doesn't confronting further convince them of their position with the questions? To queation, does that not set me up as the bitch to stay away from?
So confused!

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In my understanding, their is a difference to db-Ing and being a doormat. If you'd found it through snooping then maybe I would be a case of leave him to it. But to do it right in front of you just isn't right imo. I may not be the one to ask on this, I tend to see red, but I just see it being done right in front of your eyes isn't right. Hopefully some more people will come along to give you some more advise. But I just see it is a chance to throw some boundaries down.


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Cherry, honestly, I don't even know how to start and when to do it. I'm not feeling I could right now as I feel more fragile.

I started a different thread. See you there?? smile

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2697246#Post2697246

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Me54 WH48
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Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again


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