Originally Posted By: Cherry
Ooh yes! I'm loving the smack down club! Loving the feisty women here taking control of their life's.

Phoebe, you don't have to apologise for the feistiness. In my head I frequently tell him to go pleasure himself!

Sh, yes I'm willing to give that a go. Anything that gives me an opportunity to take control and survive this I'm willing to grab with both hands. And obviously I would love the opportunity to save my marriage. But my sanity needs to be saved first.

Time to start a new thread to I guess

Cherry, yes, sanity first and that will help you do what is needed to save the MR on your part.
Detaching is good for both. I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the reading and plans for taking baby steps to implement.

Last edited by Cadet; 08/01/16 07:28 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message

Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine