I just wanted to post an update on here as it's been a while
My marriage is over, completely over. More importantly I'm happy about it.
Everything I was told since the bomb drop has been lies and deceit, you cannot believe anything a WW says, at all, nothing!
I've now moved on with my life and guess what, she came running back paying interest. It was a genuine feeling of moving on from me though rather than pretending and putting on a front, that for me was too difficult as I was only doing things still thinking that it would make her jealous etc.
Anyway, for anyone going through a marriage breakup because of a WW, there is hope , things get better and easier. At first I never thought I'd get over the pain I was in, but I have got through the other side, the sadness of my family's unit ending is still in the background, but the volume is down low and the pain is no longer there.
True, but this was more about her being in control of the situation and in control of me.
She had done too many things to cause damage for a reconciliation on my part, I don't want one, but I have made that choice, in the past I'd have done anything for an R to take place because I wasn't in control of myself and didn't want to GAL.
Just saying there is light at the end of the tunnel
