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i was just complaining on friday that i wouldnt see the kids for 4 days. tonight she text me and says, that if im interested in seeing the kids tomorrow, to let her know, that if she was in my shoes, she wouldnt want to go that long. so, of course i say , yes id like to see, them thank you very much for the offer.

now its got me thinking.....is she genuinely being nice? or does she want something????

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It does not matter what she wants. You're in her head.

You are seeing your kids and that's all that matters. Don't be too happy, but tell her that you're happy to take them whenever you are available, not when she is. I don't think that it counts as babysitting, as long as you're doing it for you. Not because she asked you.


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Please start a new thread.


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i agree, im in her head.

the first time we separated, this NEVER happened. every other weekend, was the name of the game.

is she starting to feel guilty? or is she just leaving me a few crumbs to pick up, cause she sees me moving away and doesnt want me to run?

or will she corner me again on the pick up or drop off and want to "talk" hehehe dang it, now shes in my head. lol

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