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She thinks i've givin up on our M and that I hate her.


No she doesn't.

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should i be just letting her go foward beleiving that.


Yep!

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I beleive she is afraid of being alone and this is going to dive her further away.


No it won't.

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She said something to that effect when she was walking out the door last night.


Do you remember what I said in the WW threads about the two cards a WW will use the most often?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!