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Originally Posted By: Ancaire
Focus - I like your homework, and I'm going to borrow it for myself. I have no idea what I want in life, other than for it to stop, so I can not be in pain any longer.

I'm smart enough to realize that attitude is going to wind up causing me a great deal of harm. I don't really know what I want to do in life. I've just been existing for so many years. To actually live it? It's a frightening prospect.

However, I think if I take the time to dream a little, I might be able to come up with a plan for where to go, and what to do next. Thanks for sharing your counselors advice. That was pure gold to me!


You're very welcome.

I think I'm going to make mine mostly visual (pictures from magazines) and maybe a couple of quite spiritual quotations as well.

I feel the same way as you, for too long I've just been existing (mainly looking after my H and his career).

I find it easy to do the 'no limits daydreaming' when I'm working on a project at for my business. But for my own self? I have no idea...it feels a bit blank at the moment.

I guess that's not a bad thing though? You don't have to rush to fill the blankness with anything. Just take a bit of time to have a look around, see what's out there that you like, and maybe add a bit of that into your life?


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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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