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((( cherry)))

Yes, it will pass. Hard to know what he's telling his mum. His mum ratted on him? Good that she's on your side.

Seems like he's trying to be nice. Hope that you'll feel better soon.

I realised that for my X and I, we took turns to be angry in the months leading to the D. He would be stand offish but see me making an effort. The next time when he tried to make an effort, I would be angry at him for being such an a$$ the previous time. A vicious cycle.

So perhaps for you, you might just have to try being nice to each other at the same time? I do realise it's really easier said than done.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
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Yeah she really is on my side.

Yeah that vicious cycle sounds like us.

Hmm yeah I'll try to- I feel I just need to get my anger out today.. Staying away for him is possibly the best plan. I've had a little pamper session. I just needed to regroup.


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Please start a new thread.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16
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