I think the 'we'll see' response is okay, and then nearer the time, maybe just have plans & be busy. Truly, read the LRT stuff again and apply to the letter - I'm sure that's the way to go - and the clear message is - that's enough for me now. I won't live like that and will move forward with my own life now. It's your best shot I believe. Explore what life will be like without her in your life. What will you do? Who with and so on.
She has been likely been holding on to 'what if' thoughts about OM for many years and it has to run it's course. It didn't before and it needs to now. That doesn't happen overnight and I don't think being friend - back burner husband - plan B etc is the way to go...
JMHO of course xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Think Clint Eastwood, James Bond, George Clooney, some indifference, your busy, your moving on, your mysterious, you will have a good life with or without her
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
